Regret

This is perhaps one of the words in English which I hate the most, more than just the word the feeling, or the realization is what I cannot stand, that does not mean I am exempted from this, naah I experienced it and hence I hate it.

Now that we agree that - anyways we cannot escape being regretful of things which you do or things which you did not. Let’s crack this word to start with, it's about priorities which we need to put in an order to accomplish things , for every one as individuals we need to chalk out the priorities clearly, maybe that's when we will know what we actually want out of life, and what gives us happiness.

Before I go forward I wanted to mention something here: As a Certified Internal Auditor I was a part of several Information Security Certifications like ISMS or PCI- DSS ( it might be heavy techie jargon for some of you but it is all together about Information security in Corporate Organizations), everywhere as  a part of security measures we were able to  put in lot of controls in place and everyone who mentored me during this activities always stated that HUMAN'S are the weakest link....and I couldn't agree more and I guess you understand what I mean. This was just an example before I could say:  " To be genuinely happy please tie your life to a Goal, not to People or things".

Financial hungers, Fleshy needs, wealthy desires, dream vacations, diplomatic thoughts, thirst for success, blissful moods, lot of cheers and a little tears are all a part of this journey called life, in due course of pursuing all these wants and desires you never know when life passed away, no matter what clock ticks and it's not going to stop for you or me. There must be some fine mornings or warm evenings when we sat down to actually track down things which we have done or which we did not  due to which we are made what we are to that moment- and that's when we realize where does this Regret sit comfortably.

We know what we did yesterday, good or bad it's done, lets watch out on what we are doing today so that tomorrow can be better, We think too much about the past and compare the present with it, instead of going out and hunting for the future- at the end we need to accept the responsibility of our life, we should know that, "it is we" who will get where we want to go no one else. If any of your regrets gave someone else a smile, or made somebody's day, let's not count it as one, as long as you can make someone happy can never be regretted...So Go...make it count, count them less and Live On!