Lonely ness

This might be tricky and confusing, may be you will think whether I am in the favor of Loneliness or I am not, that does not mean i am confused about it- It’s just two ways of experiences which i had in my life which i scribbled below.

When i asked Google it gave the following definition for Loneliness: “a state of being along in solitary isolation"

The Greatest ecstasy in life knows who you are - OSHO Rajneesh.

It is so lonely when you don't even know yourself -In Loneliness you seek affirmation from others, In Solitude you find affirmation deep within yourself!!

Not all the times are as hard as your times when you are alone. It's that when you are alone you will realize who are with you and who are not. You cannot expect people should be with you all the times, they have their own life, it's when you come out of your own cocoon and think what’s correct what's not, who's right who's not? But when i realize, all  I think is that the best way to be happy is to stop expecting and start accepting....acceptance has a joy, has rejoice and has peace but expectations have never defined any relationship as you want.....

Just that it is up to us to understand that life goes on, no matter who is there and who is not...you came alone to this world and you gotta leave alone too....just keep cherishing some moments created by your loved ones on the way....

The experience of truth happens in the absolute Silence, of being where there is no ripple of thought, where no word can enter and there is just Silence and nothing else!